This is a tough one for me, because my son is getting older and is almost bigger than me–we are one growth spurt away from that. So we have many more male aides, therapists and attendants for him and this is difficult for me since I worked on a number of abuse cases. The sad fact is that our kids get physically and sexually abused more, even into their adult years. And men perpetrate a higher number of abuse in the found cases. It’s a hard transition for some of us parents to make, but necessary….